This is going to be a short post, a question mainly addressed to all my readers.
But before coming to that, I have to tell you that I’m going to spend the weekend in a hotel with my family, enjoy the sun and spirits of holidays! So I won’t be active on the blogosphere…
When I come back though, I want you to answer this for me:
Do you prefer to have wonderful dreams and wake up in frustration because these were so far from reality, or do you prefer to have horrible nightmares and wake up with relief because they can never reach you out of bed?
Please write your answer and your thoughts on this in the comment box below!
Originally I would have said, I’d prefer dreams to nightmares because at least I’m experiencing the wonder that I would never feel in reality, but lately I’ve been dreaming too much of these wonderful worlds and every time I wake up… I feel like my dreams are being naughty to me, giving me false hopes that fade away within the day. I tend to dream the opposite of my reality and that’s awful, because I know these dreams are just too good to ever become true.
Dreams can be depressing.
So my final answer, personally, is that I prefer having nightmares. I haven’t had one in ages! But I know that I like to be reassured in the morning. I then know that my reality is much better and I embrace the day with a smile 🙂
What’s your answer?
Have a great weekend!
An Evil Nymph.
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Nightmare or dreams, when I wake they’re gone in any case…
Haha yeah you’re right, that’s a nice way to handle nightmares and dreams! Still I’ve always been fascinated by them 😉
Sweet dreams or nightmares? Definitely the first, but in any case I’m happy to be alive each morning. Glad to dream beautiful things that help me transform subconscious desires on real goals. Nightmares bother me, especially when repeating, it scares me being trapped in the past and can not leave it behind. Have a nice weekend and never stop dreaming!!! 🙂
Yes I’m glad to be still alive too haha! Interesting! Thanks! Have a great week 🙂
I, but specially people close to me 😉, prefer when i have dreams!!
Anyway imagine someone not so happy about his life… Someone ill… They’re probably already miserable..a dream is a chance for them to do what they would like to do, but in “real” life they can’t… Yes, when they wake up, they’ve lost those powers, but STILL, they had them for one night and they’ll probably have them again..!! 😉
You’ve got a point here! When I feel optimistic I totally think like that. At least these dreams enable us to live something extraordinary… at least once in our lifetime…
So young, so deep, I have always said… your life is like an empty book, everyday you write another page… I guess metaphorically speaking, you could say that about dreams… but waking up and living or writing in your book… sleeping you are not in control so much, waking…I wish I could scream it from the mountain tops… don’t waste your pages!!!! But then, if someone had told me back then what I know now… I was in a nightmare, would I have listened? You and I my dear are all about writing letters to the younger versions of ourselves… at your age… I would have told me not to take it all so seriously and be happer… You are young without aches and pains, you can hop out of bed and write whatever adventure you want. YOU are the author of your destiny…
Okay, okay off of my soap box but you have gotten me to care about you and I am so glad that you sounded happy about spending the weekend with your family, I am praying it was wonderful! Looking forward to hearing how it went in one of your wonderful accounts!!
I am thankful for you!!!
Soooo WHAT the heck was that all about? lol… I re-read what I just wrote and thought too bad you can’t edit when you write replies on other people’s blogs… lol! But I do mean it
I am thankful we stumbled upon each other. Happy Thanksgiving! Hope it was happy!
Wow thank you so much for your supportive words! They just make my day! I’m glad we’ve met too. The blogosphere is so wonderful as a community 🙂 Thanks indeed I spend an awesome time with my family! Have a great week!
I rarely remember my dreams, if I do they are in vivid color and never a nighmare though I have much stress in my life during the night I suppose I relax…beautiful picture!
It annoys me not to remember, but sometimes I think, well… ignorance is bliss 🙂 Thanks for coming by!
Nightmare or dreams, when I wake they’re gone in – so I never remember them the day after the night – and I sometimes feel me a little foolish (no I don’t ‘haha’) because I never can tell about them… 😉
But I can dream when I’m awake and remmember these dreams too… 🙂
– nightmares, I’m really not have them when I’m awake, because I have leaned on the tough way that “what don’t kill you, will make you stronger” – and I’m still alive… ‘hahaha’
But I always loved reading Alfred Hitchcock, Stephen King and that kind – watch my first Hitchcock film as 8-9 years old… 🙂
Hope you have a wonderful weekend… 🙂
That’s an interesting point of view! Thanks for sharing 🙂 Yes it was an awesome weekend, thanks!
Dreaming is pretty cools it’s feel like we’ve been on adventure on emotional journey and a nightmare can be so vivid and they are haunting for days. Have a nice weekend 😀
Adventures they are indeed! Thanks I did!
i will rather rather prefer having fabulous dreams because i rarely rue after drearms that dont become reality because i know dream and reality are different, if dreams become real then one should fall down on knees and thank god from the core of one’s soul, if not, then accept life the way it is and love it.
That’s a wise way to deal with dreams. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this 🙂
i think dreams make our lives more cheerful and if scary dreary… i rather prefer happy ones 🙂
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Dreams are a part of your reality, making it more beautiful, AND you can always tap into those worlds through art!
True! Thanks for the advice 🙂
I’ll skip the nightmares any day… 🙂
True. Wise decision 😛